Vacation Dreams

An Emotional Intelligence Program
for Competitive Tennis Players

What Is Emotional Intelligence

Stay Accountable, Stay Aligned

A daily check-in is a simple yet effective way to track progress towards long-term goals, stay accountable, and make adjustments as needed.

What Players Are Saying

Tennys Sandgren

Tennys Sandgren

A Home Run. I so wish I had a Program like this when I was coming up.

Tennys Sandgren

Tennys Sandgren

A Home Run. I so wish I had a Program like this when I was coming up.

Tennys Sandgren

Tennys Sandgren

A Home Run. I so wish I had a Program like this when I was coming up.

Meet Barry Buss

Barry is a sober hippy tennis professional author. It’s a small niche indeed. He lives in Nashville, Tennessee with his lovely wife and two loyal pugs. If you’d like to speak to him about future writing projects or speaking engagements.

Regarding emotional health, we have never known more, been more aware, and had many helpful resources available. Yet, as a society and more specifically, tennis as a sport, we continue to fall further and further behind. What gives?

FBTL approaches our struggles with emotional wellness from a different angle. So much of sports psychology, therapy and treatment, the modern mentor/ coaching world, and psychology/psychiatry in general approach problems after they’ve arisen in a reactive/corrective way—and don’t get me wrong, that’s important.

In the Media

The Journey: Emotional Intelligence on Court

Featured in the FBTL journal, The Journey reminds us that growth isn’t linear. With powerful metaphors drawn from tennis and…
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Understanding The Tennis Environment

An environment is a place where an organism makes its home. Otherwise known as a habitat, an environment meets all…
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1. Individual Sessions

$120

Per 60-minute session

Best for players needing occasional support or mental tune-ups.

Most Popular

2. Monthly Performance Packages

Baseline Mental Training Package

$400/month

(4 sessions, 60 min each)

Great for players building mental resilience and consistency.

For serious competitors

3.Breakthrough Mindset Package

$800/month

(8 sessions, 60 min each + match analysis)

Designed for players competing regularly and needing in-depth mental conditioning.

High-Performance Players

4.Champion’s Elite Program

$1,500/month

(12 sessions + in-match coaching support)

For players dedicated to making mental toughness their greatest asset.

Frequently Asked Questions

01 What does FBTL stand for?

FBTL stands for First Ball to Last—a mindset that emphasizes emotional resilience and focus from the start of a match to the very end.

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